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Solution Research Solution #1: Teaching kids when there young to not hate anyone or anything else, and to think for themselves. Solution #2: Having help for people that want to get out of cults, like local therapists, and people that can understand what there going through. __Solution #1:__ Stern-LaRosa, Caryl M. "Talking To Your Child About Hatred And Prejudice." //ADL//. Anti-Defamation League. Web. 9 Nov. 2011. .
 * 1) Hatred can be learned so it can be unlearned.
 * 2) Hatred is learned from the person the kid looks up to the most, so that could be a parent or brother or sister.
 * 3) Steriotypes is another thing that contributes to helping kids learn hatred.
 * 4) Children do really notice that colored people are different looking.
 * 5) Children have a litteral mind when there young so they will most likely ask why people are different colors and they will wonder what to do with these people.
 * 6) Children being aware of an explanation doesn't promote negative attitudes but it does help them understand and learn to not prejudge.
 * 7) Parents need to talk to there kids and give them accurate explanations about how the media and books might think of people, and how you should think of people.
 * 8) Kids don't know the difference between fact and fiction yet, so adults have to teach them while there young.
 * 9) Parents should make sure that they "practice what they preach," parents have to show the child that what they told them is true.
 * 10) This helps because it "proves it" to the child that what the parent said is true.
 * 11) It is equally important that we don't only tell the kids what sets us apart, but what binds us together and humans.
 * 12) But, if you always tell them "those people do that stuff like us," the they might start thinking that, thats the only thing that those people do right.

Linn, Susan. "How To Talk To Your Child About Bias And Hate." //Partners Agenst Hate//. OJJDP. Web. 10 Nov. 2011. .
 * 1) All the things people think fit with there attitude.
 * 2) Its good at a young age to expose your child to other customs and just more different things.
 * 3) Inform the child of what will happen if they ever do a crime out of hatred.
 * 4) Parents should inform there children that everyone on the inside is the same so we should all be treated the same, and they should tell them the difference between treating people with respect and whats disrespectful.

__Solution #2:__ Cumming, Anne. "Counslor Help Cult Survivors." //RickRoss//. 6 July 2003. Web. 10 Nov. 2011. .
 * 1) There are places for therepy for people that survived cults.
 * 2) If you think some one is involved in a cult you should recomend them to visit one of these places.
 * 3) People leave cults if they leave on there own(rare).
 * 4) People leave cults if they are kicked out for doing something that the cult doesn't like.
 * 5) People leave cults if there family intervenes with them and the cult and doesn't let them stay in it.
 * 6) Because cults use "brainwashing," after someone gets out of a cult they will need phycological help.
 * 7) Counslers can also try to convinse a member to leave a cult.
 * 8) To enter someone elses pain that they have that the cult left behind in them is really hard.
 * 9) It is difficult to understand the pain of the member that has left.
 * 10) After leaving a cult, making simple desition will be hard for the person.
 * 11) People in cults are so dependent on there leader that the smallest dessitions for them are still hard to make, because they don't know whats right.
 * 12) They don't know whats right because they believed what ever there leader chose for them was right.
 * 13) People that get out of cults knew the cult as there religion so they don't know what do believe in any more.
 * 14) Counslers can use a good kind of "brainwashing" to convince people to leave cults.
 * 15) This "brainwashing" doesn't always work if the member is extremely loyal.